Sometimes, love deserves a little risk.
If you’re ready to take things up a notch with your boyfriend, sending a bold, flirty, or cheeky message can be the perfect way to stir up some passion, fun, and surprise. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or just starting to flirt your way into his heart, a well-crafted risky message can leave him thinking about you all day—and maybe even rushing to reply. Below are 100 risky things to send to your boyfriend, from seductive teases to spicy dares, cute confessions, and bold statements. Use them wisely… and prepare for the heat.
100 Risky stuff to Send to Your Boyfriend
- What would you do if I were in your bed right now wearing nothing but a smile?
- I just had a dream about you… should I tell you what happened or show you?
- If I sent you a picture, would you promise not to save it?
- I’m not wearing anything under this hoodie… just thought you should know.
- Guess what color my underwear is… or do you want proof?
- I keep getting distracted thinking about last night.
- Want to know my favorite place to be kissed? Try and guess right.
- I dare you to make me blush with just one text.
- Thinking about you is making it impossible to focus… especially with these thoughts.
- If you were here right now, we wouldn’t be talking, that’s for sure.
- I just bought something you’ll like… but you’ll have to take it off me later.
- I have a naughty secret. Want a hint?
- I feel like breaking some rules tonight… you in?
- I miss your hands on me. Just saying.
- Send me a voice note. But whisper something I’m not supposed to hear.
- What’s your biggest fantasy? No filter.
- Do you think we’d get in trouble if I showed up at your place in the middle of the night?
- I just found a picture of us… and now I can’t stop smiling (or biting my lip).
- My bed feels too cold without you. Want to fix that?
- I’m feeling adventurous. Want to be my partner in crime tonight?
- What if I told you I’m thinking about that time you kissed my neck…?
- I just found that outfit you love on me. Should I wear it tonight—or not at all?
- I want to be the reason you can’t sleep tonight.
- Can I tell you something bold… or should I just show you later?
- If I was there right now, where would your hands be?
- I can’t stop thinking about the way you look at me when you want me.
- Ever had a day where you miss someone’s lips a little too much? Me. Today.
- Tell me something that would make me blush.
- I have a little fantasy with your name all over it.
- I hope you’re not busy later, because I have plans for you.
- Would you rather tease me or be teased? Choose wisely.
- I want to whisper something in your ear… but it’s definitely not safe for public.
- Want to play a game? It involves you, me, and fewer clothes.
- Don’t be shy. Tell me what you’d do if I kissed you… everywhere.
- I love how you say my name when you’re excited.
- Every time my phone buzzes, I hope it’s you saying something naughty.
- Want to exchange fantasies tonight? I’ll go first if you’re brave.
- Do you want the sweet version of me today—or the wild one?
- I’ve been replaying that night in my head all day. Can we make part two soon?
- What’s one thing you want to try with me but haven’t said out loud yet?
- My mind keeps wandering… straight to your hands and lips.
- You looked so good last time. I had to behave… but I didn’t want to.
- Sometimes I wonder if you realize how badly I want you.
- Would you kiss me if I was wearing only a towel? Or take it off first?
- My lips are jealous of my phone… it gets way more attention from you.
- I dare you to send me a message that’ll make me drop everything.
- I have an idea for how we could heat up this boring day.
- Do you like surprises? I’m not wearing what you think I am.
- I need help with something… it involves your hands and no clothes.
- Can you come over? I promise to behave… until you tell me not to.
- I’m not a morning person, but if you were beside me, I’d wake up happy.
- You’re the reason I can’t stop biting my lip today.
- What if I told you I’m laying in bed, thinking about your hands?
- If you were a storm, I’d never seek shelter.
- I want to break all the rules with you.
- Do you like it when I take control? Or do you want to take the lead?
- I had a spicy thought about you earlier. Want to know what it was?
- Tell me your favorite place to kiss… I might make it happen.
- I just lit a candle that smells like you. Now I miss your skin.
- If you could freeze one moment between us, which one would it be?
- Would you survive a whole day without touching me?
- You make me want to do things I shouldn’t text.
- Want to do something fun… but kind of bad?
- Let’s play truth or dare over text… I’ll start.
- I’ve got two tickets to somewhere private—pack light 😉
- I’m feeling extra today… you ready for it?
- The thought of you is distracting… in the best possible way.
- If I walked into your room right now, what would you do first?
- I miss you. Especially your lips.
- Let’s pretend we’re strangers meeting at a hotel. What happens next?
- Do you want me to be sweet or spicy tonight? Or both?
- I’m in the mood to break some rules. Want to help?
- Guess what I’m not wearing right now.
- You’ve been on my mind all day… and not in the innocent way.
- Just felt a shiver thinking about your hands.
- Your voice turns me on more than any playlist.
- Every time I close my eyes, I feel your touch.
- You bring out my naughtiest side. Thank you for that.
- Sometimes, I wish texting wasn’t the only thing I could do to you.
- I just remembered something you whispered to me… and now I can’t focus.
- If you tell me what you’re thinking, I’ll tell you mine…
- Your messages are dangerous… they make me want more.
- Do you ever think about that time when… you know.
- You in my bed > anything else right now.
- Tell me what you’d do if there were no limits tonight.
- I wore that perfume you like… and nothing else.
- You’re my favorite distraction.
- How are you so good at driving me wild with just words?
- Do you ever replay that one night in your head? Me too.
- If I sent you a picture, would you handle it well—or would you come over?
- Warning: I’m in a mood. A very dangerous one.
- You’ve officially made it impossible for me to be normal today.
- Bet I can make you blush with just one sentence.
- Your touch is my favorite addiction.
- Thinking about the way you breathe when you want me.
- You make me feel like I’m on fire. In all the best ways.
- Just me, in bed, bored… guess what I’m thinking?
- You’re the only one who makes me want to risk it all.
- Let’s cancel plans and make our own fun.
- I just had the wildest idea… want in?
